g_signal_disconnect*() doesn't stop any existing callbacks from running
which means that if the notify::state callback is in progress in one
thread and the data channel object is finalize()ed in another thread,
then there could be a use-after-free trying lock the data channel
object.
We can't reasonably use a GWeakRef as we don't have a 'parent' object to
free the GWeakRef after the data channel is finalized. This is also
complicated by the fact that the application can hold a reference to the
data channel object that would live beyond the lifetime of webrtcbin
itself.
We solve this by implementing a ghetto weak-ref solution internally with
a list of outstanding data channels.
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/gstreamer/gstreamer/-/merge_requests/1664>
