If we call g_main_loop_quit before the thread has entered g_main_loop_run, we
don't actually stop the mainloop ever. Solve this race by adding an idle source
to the mainloop that calls the _quit. This way we immediately exit the mainloop
if quit was called before we started it.
Also fix race condition if two threads are asking for the first
thread from the thread pool at once. This would case two internal
GThreadPools to be created.
https://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=707753
If we try to reuse a thread right after we made it stop, we end up using a
stopped thread. Catch this case and only reuse threads that are not stopping.