Removing a meta from a buffer means one doesn't have access to it
anymore. Instead use the already reffed composition directly.
Fixes a use-after-free in the following pipeline:
... ! vulkanupload ! timeoverlay ! vulkanoverlaycompositor ! ...
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/gstreamer/gstreamer/-/merge_requests/4143>
They are part of gst_dep already and we have to make sure to always have
gst_dep. The order in dependencies matters, because it is also the order
in which Meson will set -I args. We want gstreamer's config.h to take
precedence over glib's private config.h when it's a subproject.
While at it, remove useless fallback args for gmodule/gio dependencies,
only gstreamer core needs it.
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/gstreamer/gstreamer/-/merge_requests/2031>
