diff --git a/bookwyrm/templates/user/relationships/layout.html b/bookwyrm/templates/user/relationships/layout.html
index e83e53471..5baaf1f96 100644
--- a/bookwyrm/templates/user/relationships/layout.html
+++ b/bookwyrm/templates/user/relationships/layout.html
@@ -6,14 +6,14 @@
 {% with user|username as username %}
 <nav class="tabs">
     <ul>
-        {% url 'user-following' user|username as url %}
-        <li{% if url == request.path or url == request.path|add:'/' %} class="is-active"{% endif %}>
-            <a href="{{ url }}">{% trans "Following" %}</a>
-        </li>
         {% url 'user-followers' user|username as url %}
         <li{% if url == request.path or url == request.path|add:'/' %} class="is-active"{% endif %}>
             <a href="{{ url }}">{% trans "Followers" %}</a>
         </li>
+        {% url 'user-following' user|username as url %}
+        <li{% if url == request.path or url == request.path|add:'/' %} class="is-active"{% endif %}>
+            <a href="{{ url }}">{% trans "Following" %}</a>
+        </li>
     </ul>
 </nav>
 {% endwith %}
diff --git a/bookwyrm/templates/user/user_preview.html b/bookwyrm/templates/user/user_preview.html
index c641c58fb..89b545cec 100644
--- a/bookwyrm/templates/user/user_preview.html
+++ b/bookwyrm/templates/user/user_preview.html
@@ -1,5 +1,6 @@
 {% load i18n %}
 {% load humanize %}
+{% load bookwyrm_tags %}
 
 <div class="media block">
     <div class="media-left">
@@ -12,8 +13,19 @@
         <p><a href="{{ user.remote_id }}">{{ user.username }}</a></p>
         <p>{% blocktrans with date=user.created_date|naturaltime %}Joined {{ date }}{% endblocktrans %}</p>
         <p>
-        <a href="{{ user.local_path }}/followers">{% blocktrans count counter=user.followers.count %}{{ counter }} follower{% plural %}{{ counter }} followers{% endblocktrans %}</a>,
-        <a href="{{ user.local_path }}/following">{% blocktrans with counter=user.following.count %}{{ counter }} following{% endblocktrans %}</a>
+            {% if is_self %}
+
+            <a href="{% url 'user-followers' user|username %}">{% blocktrans count counter=user.followers.count %}{{ counter }} follower{% plural %}{{ counter }} followers{% endblocktrans %}</a>,
+            <a href="{% url 'user-following' user|username %}">{% blocktrans with counter=user.following.count %}{{ counter }} following{% endblocktrans %}</a>
+
+            {% else %}
+
+            {% mutuals_count user as mutuals %}
+            <a href="{% url 'user-followers' user|username %}">
+                {% blocktrans with mutuals_display=mutuals|intcomma count counter=mutuals %}{{ mutuals_display }} follower you follow{% plural %}{{ mutuals_display }} followers you follow{% endblocktrans %}
+            </a>
+
+            {% endif %}
         </p>
     </div>
 </div>
diff --git a/bookwyrm/templatetags/bookwyrm_tags.py b/bookwyrm/templatetags/bookwyrm_tags.py
index 2ed0cbc2b..2697d3ced 100644
--- a/bookwyrm/templatetags/bookwyrm_tags.py
+++ b/bookwyrm/templatetags/bookwyrm_tags.py
@@ -235,3 +235,10 @@ def get_lang():
     """get current language, strip to the first two letters"""
     language = utils.translation.get_language()
     return language[0 : language.find("-")]
+
+
+@register.simple_tag(takes_context=True)
+def mutuals_count(context, user):
+    """how many users that you follow, follow them"""
+    viewer = context["request"].user
+    return user.followers.filter(id__in=viewer.following.all()).count()